(Are actions and words matching the message?)
I’ve recently experienced someone close to me acting one way but saying something completely different. Their attitude and behaviors weren’t matching what they said, and I found being around them irritating, confusing, and energy draining until I started viewing this from my Higher Soul perspective.
As I asked my Angelic Team and Guides for help with how to stay balanced around these energies, I realized that the situation was bringing important opportunities for growth if I was willing to recognize what I needed to learn and why it was happening around me.
Clear communication and behaviors are fun to be around, empowers ourselves and others, and helps move us forward to more joyful experiences. Being around someone whose actions aren’t matching their words can be jarring and create a discord if you aren’t sure what the person is really saying.
If someone has shown up around you with unclear messages and conflicting behavior, it may be time to search for the true Universal message so that you can uncover hidden gifts from what the situation is here to teach.
Are they deliberately withholding important information or only telling part of the truth?
If someone acts friendly and helpful when you’re present but later distorts how and what you’ve said to them, withholds important information, or manipulates a situation for their own gain, their actions are speaking louder than their words.
Since this is about hidden or repressed information, start checking for any areas of your life where you may be blocking or withholding a truth from yourself. Is there anything that you aren’t willing to see within, a truth that you’ve been denying, changes that need to be made, or resistance to an area ready to heal? If so, ask for more clarity, transparency, and the willingness to help you recognize any hidden or unresolved truths that may be holding you back.
The situation may also be teaching you to be more direct or develop the courage to question and address discrepancies from others more often. You may be learning persistence or to be stronger when asking for what you need. Request extra help from your Higher Self and Angelic team to reveal subconscious, hidden or cloaked motivations around any area of your life.
It could also be happening to allow you to see the impact that negative behavior and attitudes have on others so that you make different choices for yourself. Some or all of these may be the powerful messages for you and as you embrace them, can help you move forward to other people, places, and situations that better match your energy and consciousness.
Are they not following through, constantly creating problems that others must correct, or seem to always just get by?
This person may be a taker and spiritual energy vampire who will gladly let others absorb the messes that they create. They either aren’t aware of or don’t care that others are impacted by their poor choices and decisions.
If this is showing up, you possibly are being tested to see how much you’ll allow others to take advantage of you or to stop unacceptable behavior by developing healthier boundaries around what you will and won’t tolerate.
It may also be an opportunity that is strengthening you to learn how to protect yourself energetically so that you don’t allow someone to drain your energies emotionally, mentally, or physically. The Universe may also be sending a message that it’s time to change a relationship or job personally and/or professionally if possible.
Do they have a sense of entitlement, feel that the world owes them, and continually act like a victim?
If so, this can be a powerful Universal opportunity to say no to being sucked into someone else’s drama and problems. If you consistently rush in to help but never receive the same support, you feel drained and tired after being around this person, or you keep doing for them what they need to do for themselves, it’s time to begin honoring yourself and your own energies.
Check for your own attitudes of victim energies, self-pity, or procrastination issues that you may not be aware of. If others are mirroring patterns back to you, work on taking new actions, changing your attitude, and learning healthier behaviors so you claim your personal power and create the life that you really want.
If a version of human sandpaper has shown up in your life and is rubbing, buffing, and prodding you into new awareness and growth, now is a good time to use your best spiritual tools and the willingness to see the real message. As you embrace these higher truths and learn what you need to from the situation, you’ll move forward to more joyful possibilities.
In Light, Nancy Robinson
I help clients enhance their mental and emotional well-being and my process enables them to awaken new talents, abilities, and reach higher levels of creativity.
I empower clients with proven effective strategies for job search and career change, and use my energetic process to transform any fear and anxiety around finding the job and career that’s right for you.
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